Zine Review: I’m Learning to Dance Through Clouds

I’m Learning to Dance Through Clouds: A Mental Health Zine
Shei
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I’m Learning to Dance Through Clouds is a full-colour A7 mini-zine about the path to learning to accept one’s mental illness.

Shei opens their lovely zine as the cover starts – with lovely colourful collage and handwritten words. Shei writes about learning to acknowledge their mental illness and the difficulties in doing so. Shei writes about contemplating the idea of normalcy, medication, and more.

My heart went to Shei with zine and I identified with it taking time for me to accept my own mental illnesses and putting feelings of blame on myself for something I couldn’t control.

As with Shei’s work, this zine is lovely to look at. All the colour and the collage elements have me taking my time with each page to really take in everything. In this zine, Shei even uses different colour pens to add colourful handwritten text as well. Everything felt very personal and warm.

I think there is a lot of value in sharing our stories, part of that value being that we can encourage others in sharing their stories. I’m Learning to Dance Through Clouds is a lovely life story for your pocket that you can carry with you for the times you feel alone.

Happy Mail Monday – Fabulous Catalogue Edition

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Welcome back to another Happy Mail Monday where I share the awesome, fun, and amazing mail that has landed in my post box over the past week. This week sees zine goodness from the northern hemisphere from new zine friends and old!

Thank you so much for watching.

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Awesome People/Places/Spaces Mentioned:

*Ken Bausert – https://www.instagram.com/passcribe/

*Nina Echozina – https://echopublishing.wordpress.com/
*Lavender Witch – https://lavenderwitchband.wordpress.com/
*Lavender Witch on YouTube – https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCVf0LtHtNT7NRi4nYyo_Ztg

*TJ Corless – https://www.paperandinkzine.co.uk/product/quarter-life-a-few-weekends-by-tj-corless

*Mike Nobody – https://mikenobody.com/
*Three Urban Spacecat – https://mikenobody.com/theee-urban-spacecat-zine/
*Three Urban Spacecat on SGZ – https://www.seagreenzines.com/check-it-out-three-urban-spacecat-a-mike-nobody-cassette-zine-2/

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My PO Box:

Jaime Nyx
PO Box 378
Murray Bridge, SA 5253
Australia

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Zine Review: Non Monogamy 101: A Primer for Questioning Compulsory Monogamy

Non Monogamy 101: A Primer for Questioning Compulsory Monogamy
Adelaide Barton
http://www.brusquebabe.com
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Non Monogamy 101 is a black and white, about 11cm X 18cm sized zine about examining monogamy and monogamous assumptions, non-monogamy practices, and ethical approaches to non-monogamous relationships.

This zine is exactly what I was looking for. Exactly.

Non Monogamy 101 opens up with a quick side note about how real, ethical non-monogamy is a relationship in which all partners have informed consent. Anything else is cheating. And with this clear and concise start, I knew I was getting into the kind of zine I’d been looking for when I started exploring this topic.

From there we dive into the intro – a piece about how the hack and data dump of the Ashley Madison affair website brought up a number of conversations for Adelaide regarding monogamy, views thereof, and assumptions based on those views. It’s only a deeper dive after that as Adelaide explores how non-monogamy is actually an umbrella term, how non-monogamous relationships are definitely not anything new, and how monogamous assumptions

I could go on and on all day about all the information in this zine. It’s absolutely fabulous. History, what modern non-monogamy looks like, responses from people as to why they engage in non-monogamous relationships. There’s so much to learn!

I loved being introduced to these new-to-me terms like ‘primary partner’ and ‘unicorn’. I love that it acknowledges the hard work involved in complex relationships. What I especially adored was the “Harmful Love Myths Debunked” that shed a light on thoughts and judgements borne purely of a society that values monogamy above all as if love is this finite resource that can only work in one way.

I love the aesthetic of this zine (to the extent that I want the colour version as well). It’s full of text information, but the way the clear handwriting, the easily noticed emphasis, and all the little elements like drawings and speech bubbles come together into something I enjoy while *not* feeling talked down to.

There’s a phrase I picked up a long time ago, and I don’t even remember where it was from, but it’s this: “We don’t yuck anyone’s yum.” Isn’t that fabulous? I feel like this zine does a spectacular job of not only showing what non-monogamy is but also that there are so many different ways to do it – and no one should stand in judgment of how informed, consenting adults lead their romantic and sexual lives.

Non Monogamy 101 is a fantastic reference and educator on the world of non-monogamy in a form that feels a lot more personal and a lot less intimidating than your standard book. If you’re merely a little curious or looking to move forward with a non-monogamous lifestyle, then do yourself the favour of picking up this zine.

Happy Mail Monday – Snowglobe Edition

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Hello, hello, and hello once more. Welcome back to Happy Mail Monday where I share amazing mail that has landed in my post box. This week, fabulous mail from the fabulous LP has landed! Zines, stationery, and more, oh my.

Thank you so much for watching.

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Awesome People/Places/Spaces Mentioned:

*LP on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lp.like.the.record/
*LP in Progress: https://lpinprogress.wordpress.com/
*Featured Mag in English: https://www.featuredmag.nl/en/
*Feature Mag in Dutch: https://www.featuredmag.nl/nl/

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My PO Box:

Jaime Nyx
PO Box 378
Murray Bridge, SA 5253
Australia

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seagreenzines@gmail.com

Link Tree: https://linktr.ee/seagreenzines